A reader asked me the following question over on my tumblr.

Hello I love your blog, if you can give me tips in the perfect personality to mirror, I know that my behaviour can come of as strange, I just cannot find guidelines or a model to follow,

My response:

Appear invested, even when you are not.

Appear empathetic, even when you simply don’t care.

Appear knowledgeable, even if if you have to lie.

Charm others, make them feel important.

Tell the truth, it makes the occasional lie much more believable.

and … blindside them when it is advantageous.