Humans have created two accepted structures of being that they wish to correlate perfectly with the two dominant sexes. People tend to be wary of the butch female or the effeminate male. The notion that certain manners of dress, of speaking, of walking, of relating are so intrinsically tied to biological sex has been engrained in us from the day blue cigars were laid out for your arrival as a male. That physical/behavioral paradigm has been cemented since the day you put on your first dress. That notion is bullshit.
Being free of the fixation of what is considered moral and what is considered immoral have allowed me to realize that there is absolutely no reason why anyone can’t present whatever gendered characteristics they wish, regardless of their biological sex. In the end, we are all just trying to be comfortable in our own skin. Being transgender, I am mostly comfortable in the body I’ve constructed. Being psychopathic, I am comfortable behind the masks I present. Together, I am a constant shapeshifter. [Read more…]